相手のことが本当にわかるのか？

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秋になり、外出もしやすくなっています。

朝晩は冷えてきますが、昼間は過ごしやすい気候です。

今日もまだ行ったことのない場所に行ってきました。

ところで、わたしたちは本当に相手のことを理解しているのでしょうか？

映画やドラマを見ても、実際にあれほど会話していても、いつも一緒にいたとしても、なぜか相手を理解できない場合があります。

同じ考えの人は、そう簡単にはいないはずです。

そして、何度話をしても相手のことも理解できないし、自分のことを理解させることも難しいでしょう。

それがわかる人がいたら、本当に素晴らしいことかもしれません。

考え方が違うということがわかる、というだけで人は進歩していきます。

自分がそうでなかったら、違う文化にも触れてみる必要があるでしょう。

相手が間違っている、自分が間違っているのかは、答えが出せない場合があります。

世界が違えば、イエスがノーになり、ノーがイエスになります。

言葉の壁よりも重要な思想や思考の違いなのかもしれません。

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